(The original “Ted Talks”)
“It all started at a 5000 watt radio station in Fresno California.” Of course this is Ted Baxter’s story on The Mary Tyler Moore Show not my story but this is what I feel like I’m about to tell you. Laughing IS Conceivable started while I was struggling to get pregnant as a way for me to get my frenetic ramblings out of my head and onto paper where they luckily evolved into a book instead of one very long, incoherent suicide note. I’ve known since I was little that I saw things in life at an angle. (This coming from a girl who barely limbo-ed her way under the geometry bar before it crushed her trachea.) Maybe it’s just me mentally and emotionally removing myself from situations that I can’t handle or understand. Maybe it’s self-preservation. Maybe it’s denial. All I know is my mind has always gone into joke mode at seemingly the most inappropriate times. (Speaking of The Mary Tyler Moore Show- See the “Chuckles Bites the Dust” episode. That would be me- wisecracking at a funeral.)
Like just yesterday, a friend posted that her ex, her children’s father, had died. So I’m scrolling down and everyone’s sending their condolences and prayers and then I notice one post from one of her neighbors I guess: “I know this is a bad time, but if you’re done with my step ladder, could I please have it back?” Obviously this particular ridiculousness wasn’t just in my head. All I could think of was: “We’re talking a step ladder here. So he’s not looking to save a cat on a roof or anything. He’s looking to make himself three feet taller.” I felt like replying: “Yeah, now may not be the best time for her. Don’t you have a kitchen chair you could stand on?”
So, realizing that everyone’s mind doesn’t go astray like mine does in times of crisis, I wrote that Laughing IS Conceivable book for others going through infertility who actually just try to deal with their problems without mocking them, hoping that my mocking and sarcasm might help.
From there, I started this Laughing IS Conceivable blog to further help others and to help sell the damn book. So now what? The whole theme of almost everything I’ve written over the years to me has always been: Laughing IS Conceivable… and Humor Heals. With that in mind, I’m now looking to branch out into other areas besides infertility. Don’t get me wrong (or like they say on the Maury show: “Don’t get me twisted!”) 12 1/2 years and 3 kids later, infertility is still and will always be a part of my life and my writing. But I’m exploring other topics that interest me and are, in my opinion, as equally worthy of mocking and sarcasm as infertility. What do all of these topics have in common? They’re all extremely stressful seasons in a person’s life. And they’re times that many many people have to deal with in a course of a lifetime–and they’re all things I’ve personally gone through like: Living below the poverty line, losing your parents, raising multiples, having a dead-end job (or several), relocating, anxiety issues, dieting and exercising… No. No heartrending stories of abuse or neglect. Just stresses that I’ve been through in the course of my life so far… How about in your life so far? Anything sound familiar? Ring a bell? Anything?
Everything in Laughing IS Conceivable world is being revamped to reflect the shift. In the coming months, I will have a brand new website, a new book, audio-book versions, and a podcast where I can publicly interview renowned professionals and ask them personal questions that nobody ever asks them.
“Would you still be a fertility doctor if it paid $40,000 a year?” (Would that be wrong?– It’s one thing to read my words, but what a treat it will be for you to hear my actual voice. It’s soothing melodic, and uplifting: Like a hybrid of Deepak Chopra, the Little Mermaid, and Joy Behar.)
I will keep posting here regularly while it’s all in the works. I really appreciate all of your support. I hope you will come along with me on this Laughing IS Conceivable adventure… (For updates, please join my list of subscribers: http://laughingisconceivable.com- top of home page)
Current Books in the Laughing IS Conceivable Series on Amazon, B & N, & Kobo:
Laughing IS Conceivable: One Woman’s Extremely Funny Peek into the Extremely Unfunny World of Infertility.
La Risa ES Concebible. (Spanish Version of Infertility Book)
Laughing IS Conceivable: From End of School to Back-to-School- I love my kids. I love my kids. I LOVE my kids.